Show that your heart breaks at the misery and pain of the receiver. Be with your near and dear ones in times of their need. Days like these can be extremely hard for the receiver, but you can make a little bit of change by taking some creative steps. Start by sharing sympathy cards and wait for their reaction. When the right time comes the griever will open up with you.  Once you share a condolences card it shows the compassion to be with your loved ones in times of their need. It shows that you are ready to stand by their side and be their strength. You show that no matter how much time it takes to transform the situation, together you could do that. Your simple gestures will take you a long way and provide relief to the receiver.